FAQ
Straight answers about compulsive gambling and Bettors Anonymous — no jargon, no pressure.
Common questions
What is a compulsive gambler?
Someone whose gambling keeps causing problems in any part of life — and who has lost the ability to choose when, where, or how much to bet.
How do I know if I am one?
Take the 20 Questions below. Most compulsive gamblers answer yes to at least seven. If gambling is hurting your life and you can’t stop, you’re welcome here.
Isn’t it just a money problem?
No. Money trouble is the symptom. The illness is emotional and spiritual. A bailout almost always leads to more gambling.
Can’t I just use willpower?
For most of us, no. The urge overrides logic. Recovery works through meetings, a Higher Power, and the Steps — not willpower alone.
Can I ever gamble “normally” again?
No. One bet is too many. Even a small wager can restart the obsession.
Is Bettors Anonymous a religious group?
No. Bettors Anonymous is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or institution, and it does not endorse or oppose any cause. The program is spiritual rather than religious: the Steps refer to a Power greater than ourselves and to “God as we understood Him,” and what that means is left entirely to you. Members hold every kind of belief, and some hold none.
There are no leaders and no one to answer to — decisions are made by group conscience. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop gambling. You are free to listen, to say nothing, and to leave whenever you want.
What does it cost?
Nothing. No dues or fees. We are self-supporting through voluntary contributions from members.
What are my chances?
Good — if you go to meetings, get a sponsor, and work the Steps honestly.
The 20 Questions
The self-check has its own page now, so you can work through it without the rest of the FAQ in the way.
Need help now?
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (call or text) · Massachusetts Problem Gambling Helpline 1-800-327-5050 (text), 24/7 · gamblinghelplinema.org
If you are in immediate danger, call 911.